Straddlers Value Struggle
By Melody Davis
I really enjoyed reading the book Limbo Blue-Collar Roots, White-Collar Dreams, because like the author Alfred Lubrano, I too am a Stradler.
“They were born to blue-collar families and then, like me, moved into the strange new territory of the middle class. They are the first in their families to have graduated from college. As such, they straddle two worlds, many of them not feeling at home in either, living in a kind of American limbo. “
In the book Lubrano takes a look at his own life as well as 100 others Stradlers, people who have had similar experiences growing up in blue-collar, working class homes and transitioning into the white-collar, middle to upper class world. He talks about the “C” word, class and how for so long it has been overlooked in our society. He argues that the different approaches we have on life are class based. He says that people think in terms of class constantly. The part that stood out to me the most is in the first chapter when Lubrano looks closer at the clash of values he feels exist between blue and white-collar people. On page 18, Stradler James Neal says this:
“Until you’ve had hard times, you’re not a complete person. And if you’ve never had them, well, a whole hunk of you is missing.”
When I read this I tried to think back at my own life and identify my hard times to see if they were what really “completed me”. As a person having blue-collar roots, I feel that hard times in general do make you stronger and help keep you humble. I think that many Stradlers will feel this way too because most of us had to endure some type of struggle. I’m not sure if James Neal was implying that people born in middle class families don’t have struggles. I think there is a lot that can be learned from having been through hard times, but I’m not sure I would say that a middle class person is necessarily missing a whole hunk of them if they haven’t been through hard times.
My father did not graduate from college. We were among the working class for sure. My father was and still is a Cincinnati Police officer. To this day he works countless days and nights risking his life on the dangerous streets to provide for our family. As a family we have definitely been through many hard times. For example; I know what its like to go days without electricity; We’ve had to take many cold showers when we didn’t have hot water; We ate mostly white bread, and did without many of the fancy material things that our friends may have had. I know that the “hard times” have helped me appreciate the things I do have now. My siblings and I are thankful and appreciate the sacrifices my parents made for us. Although growing up in the blue collar environment wasn’t easy, I take away some great life lessons. That is something valuable to me and makes me feel complete as a person.
This idea of Stradlers valuing struggle seems to go along with the rest of the book. Being grounded and balanced is what Lubrano observed to be important to other Stradlers as well. In the conclusion it talks about others who “take pride in a resilience born of relative deprivation”. He says that people in limbo are successful in the white-collar world because they are determined and know they have what it takes to make it through, because they have already endured struggles unlike many middle class people who had it easier. On page 226 Stradler Doug Russell says, “On the other hand, I might not have gotten anywhere if I’d come from the middle class. I had such drive and ambition to get somewhere because of where I came from. I pushed and got somewhere”. This supports the idea that people in limbo are grateful for their blue-collar roots.
I found a Video Clip of Dean Lawrence R. Velvel of Massachusetts School of Law, interviewing Alfred Lubrano about his book Limbo Blue-Collar Roots, White-Collar Dreams. I thought it was interesting to see what Lubrano looked like and hear from him why he wrote the book. He basically just elaborated on the different chapters. He talked about some of the struggles that working class people have and his personal transition.
I found another clip on youtube from the TV show Friends that pokes fun at the division between blue-collar and white-collar workers. Dr. Ross is a white-collar scientist who works at a museum. He gets his friend Joey, a blue-collar job as a museum guide. The museum is supposed to represent the “real world”. Basically Joey tries to interact with Ross at work but comes to realize that in the museum, white-collar workers who wear white coats don’t associate with the blue-collar workers who wear blue blazers. I think it is funny, but in a way illustrates some of the points Lubrano makes in the book. In Chapter 4 Lubrano talks about the different Culture Conflicts that make it hard for the two classes to have relationships.
I really enjoyed reading Limbo Blue-Collar Roots, White-Collar Dreams. I identified with a lot of what Lubrano said as well as many of the other Stradlers he interviewed. As I continue to strive to be upwardly mobile I will cherish the journey and learn from the hard times never forgetting my blue-collar roots.